So, ’tis the time of year to prepare to make resolutions regarding what one will and will not do during Lent.
Lent is the 40-day time before Easter to purify ourselves and to get ready for Holy Week, which represents Jesus’ ultimate sacrifice and resurrection.
The joke this year is it starts on a day dedicated to chocolate and candy (Valentine’s Day; St. Valentine would probably not be thrilled with what his day has become) and ends on April Fool’s Day (Easter).
To get ready, we generally give something up and/or make promises to do things better. On Fridays, we don’t eat meat (in Catholic circles, that means broth and “things from the sea” including alligator are good, but poultry are not; our Orthodox friends get to have chicken and turkey) and on some days (Ash Wednesday and Good Friday) we Catholic fast and abstain from meat.
Catholic fasting is a joke for Jewish and Muslim friends: we eat two “little meals” (together not totaling a meal) and a big meal. We brush our teeth and drink water and everything. We are lightweights on fasting.
It’s popular in Catholic circles to give up social media as a sacrifice during this time because somehow it’s destroying us all.
Under an argument that it wastes time, I guess I can see that. There is a certain time waste associated with social media; the endless scrolling and hope to find something to “like” or with which to interact get tedious.
However, some people use social media to connect because they are unable to have such deep, rich, and varied interactions in their “real” lives.
In fact, for some of us, an in-person visit is insipid and pointless. I’ll use the time to get to know your cats, dogs, and other pets. Maybe I’ll talk to your grandmother or young children, but honestly, the “age appropriate,” human types bore me.
That in person visit is a waste of time for me.
And, in my own life, Facebook has become like that pointless visit in the living room; I mostly use it to scan through prayer requests from a group of women I’m in, and I pray for them and move on. But I don’t develop anything meaningful there. It’s mostly full of people I knew in my past, but haven’t bothered to keep up with. Some of these people are parents of Autistics and like to post junk from Autism $peak$, so it helps me greatly to avoid them, particularly around April since they have ignored my repeated pleas to consider dumping the eugenicist organization as a source for news about Autism.
But Twitter is different. Autism Twitter is fascinating; we meet up there and we chat and we defend each other against the attacks of people who don’t understand Autism. It is there we meet up with the other big names of the Disability community and share information, all in reasonable-sized chunks of information.
And we can also look at kitties and puppies, too, if we want.